Be A Man

This site grew out of a book that I had written over 4 years ago and have updated over time. The book grew into an e-book, and now I’ve found that it would better serve my audience by being freely available on the web through what you’re reading now.

Many of the readers found success, and if you come across them in real life, they’ll lead you to believe that my guide is a guide to dating. In fact, it is a guide to just being a man. It encompasses the basic needs of man from the perspective of a man who has had many successes and many failures. I attribute all my failures to not following my own advice — unfortunately I came up with this advice years after most of my failures.

Take this as a guide to dating if you like, but if you can adapt your attitude and your personal focus to what I have to say, you’ll find success in more than just dating — you can find success in marriage, business, friendships, and even anonymous one-time encounters with people you meet, such as parking attendants, flight attendants and sales people. This isn’t just a guide to dating, it is a guide to relationships — meaning the interaction of Person A with Person B.

I’ll try to post at least 3 times a week. I’m taking chapters out of my e-book and maneuvering them in a way that makes the site most accessible day-by-day. In the end, I will post the new replacement e-book for all to download.

I will never charge you for this information, but I will ask one thing — if you find value in my words, send me a $20 bill in the mail. Others before you have done this, and I hope that I can offer you a guide worth thousands of times that. If you agree, you’ll give me the profit I deserve. If you disagree, please tell me why you do, so I can better serve others in the future.