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Posted by adam.dada on February 14th, 2006
As I mentioned in “What is a Man” and defined in the past two articles (vulture and chicken), the final category of Man is the rarest: the hawk.
The hawk is rare not just because the average Man doesn’t realize the power of being a hawk, but he is also rare because he doesn’t show off. A hawk is not one to be flamboyant always, nor outrageous or loud. A hawk doesn’t give all his secrets in answers, and he doesn’t make people mad at him for being dishonest.
The hawk is powerful as a person because he is eloquent, he is sure of himself, he is a bit of a mystery, and he is just a great person to be around.
The hawk is not necessarily attractive or physically fit, he does not have perfect manicured nails or the most expensive and stylish clothing. The hawk does not have to drive a hot new car, and he does not have to have the biggest bank account or shiniest credit card. The hawk doesn’t need to use force to get his way, and he doesn’t have to beg or plead, either.
The hawk gets the right girl, lands the right job, gets the right deal and sits on top more than on the bottom of every situation — even without the other party knowing it. The enemy of the hawk is not the vulture or the chicken. The hawk has no enemies, only relationships. The hawk knows that every person is valuable, and the hawk learns how to work with even the worst person to produce an end result that is beneficial to both parties in a relationship.
The hawk is the Man you will want to be, and I will tell you how to be one. There aren’t any tricks, mind games or jerky maneuvars you will have to do to be this Man, you will just have to use common sense, even when your gut feeling works against you.
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