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Posted by adam.dada on June 9th, 2006
A reader, RS from just outside of Cleveland, OH, sent me this e-mail:
I’m starting to understand what to do when I have a girl, but what do I do to get the girl? You don’t really go into those details.
RS is right — I don’t. In my previous book, I didn’t cover actually landing a great woman until about mid-way through the book. Why? Because I want the man to be prepared for all the games, attacks and tricks that the modern women tend to play, even if they don’t realize it.
For most men, the number one and two reasons why they can’t get a date with any women is pretty basic: shyness and lack of attempts. Neither of these are hard to overcome, but it is important that you take the steps necessary to realize why you can’t get a date. In the beginning, it is more important to just conquer the steps needed to intrigue a woman enough to get her to want to go out on a first date — the first date portion is a whole other process.
In my Be The Boss section, I talk about Preparing yourself to act the part of being a boss. Read this, this step is very important in business and even more important in dating (or trying to get a date). Did you break down the basics about yourself?
In the next 5 posts, I’ll cover 5 steps that every man should practice and perfect in order to gain the confidence that they need to get that first date settled. They’re nothing outrageous, nothing secretive and definitely nothing new. Most modern men have forgotten the basic 5 steps to attracting a woman enough to get them to go out on a first date; modern men have taken the role of followers in the relationship, hoping that the women will choose them, rather than the other way around.
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