Comments on: The Art of using Deception in Dating http://beaman.unanimocracy.com/2007/11/14/the-art-of-using-deception-in-dating/ No more secrets: being a man is easy -- don't spend a dime learning how Thu, 28 Aug 2008 18:12:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.2 by: Darnell http://beaman.unanimocracy.com/2007/11/14/the-art-of-using-deception-in-dating/#comment-5279 Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:06:46 +0000 http://beaman.unanimocracy.com/2007/11/14/the-art-of-using-deception-in-dating/#comment-5279 Hey there Dada. I'm a 27 year old web developer from GA. I haven't gotten very far into checking out your site, but I'm intrigued. A friend of mine sent me a link because he liked your sound money ideas. (Neither he nor I would have cared about such a topic if not for the Ron Paul Revolution.) But then I noticed you also had a site on Dating. I've been a pick-up artist for several years now. Faking confidence and doing things I dreaded having to do was how I got through the first couple years of learning this stuff. Eventually, those things I dreaded felt like opportunities. Then, it became a force of habit. Now, being out of the game because I landed the hottest chick in town, I have to fight myself from flirting with gorgeous women I would never have had the nerve to approach before. I look forward to hearing more of your ideas. It sounds like we think alike on many levels. And I would like to learn more about your thoughts on these two points: 3. Be deceptively quiet in responding to her infrequent questions, 4. Avoid casual physical contact even though you are interested in doing so. Being a student of the Charisma Arts, I find that expounding on topics and feelings upon which you relate to a woman, as well as using "kino", or touch, as a reward early and often are two of the most reliable tools in my arsenal. Well, it's time for me to go vote. It's too bad we've using the Diebold Accuvote TS system, so my vote won't count and can't be recounted. :( Hey there Dada. I’m a 27 year old web developer from GA. I haven’t gotten very far into checking out your site, but I’m intrigued. A friend of mine sent me a link because he liked your sound money ideas. (Neither he nor I would have cared about such a topic if not for the Ron Paul Revolution.) But then I noticed you also had a site on Dating.

I’ve been a pick-up artist for several years now. Faking confidence and doing things I dreaded having to do was how I got through the first couple years of learning this stuff. Eventually, those things I dreaded felt like opportunities. Then, it became a force of habit. Now, being out of the game because I landed the hottest chick in town, I have to fight myself from flirting with gorgeous women I would never have had the nerve to approach before.

I look forward to hearing more of your ideas. It sounds like we think alike on many levels.

And I would like to learn more about your thoughts on these two points: 3. Be deceptively quiet in responding to her infrequent questions, 4. Avoid casual physical contact even though you are interested in doing so.

Being a student of the Charisma Arts, I find that expounding on topics and feelings upon which you relate to a woman, as well as using “kino”, or touch, as a reward early and often are two of the most reliable tools in my arsenal.

Well, it’s time for me to go vote. It’s too bad we’ve using the Diebold Accuvote TS system, so my vote won’t count and can’t be recounted. :(

]]> by: Sean http://beaman.unanimocracy.com/2007/11/14/the-art-of-using-deception-in-dating/#comment-4818 Tue, 11 Dec 2007 04:21:35 +0000 http://beaman.unanimocracy.com/2007/11/14/the-art-of-using-deception-in-dating/#comment-4818 Adam, I am a big fan of your writing and advice. It all makes sense. I am an officer in the military (Coast Guard) enrolled in Naval Flight School at present. One of my big problems was having confidence in taking the plane out on my own. The plane we fly costs millions of dollars, and if you screw someting up, it not only costs big money and your career, but also your life. I liked your advice on faking confidence. I had some very bad landings and lost all my confidence in my abilities right before one of my biggest flights, which was a test to certify me to fly solo. Without out confidence, I failed miserably, and was almost thrown out of flight school. I had one more chance to preform on a follow up flight with a high ranking (and scary) marine corps officer. If I failed, my career would be over. I decided to go out with this pilot and pretend I was the most confident pilot in the world. I met him, he asked me what I was having problems with, I told him my last few flights were just bad days, I am a great pilot and then we went and flew. It worked, I had a great flight (eventhought it was uncomfortable as all hell). After that day, I started flying better and better, and I am now back at the top of my class. I like your advice, it pertains to many situations in life. Fake confidence really dose build into real confidence. Now its just time to start taking this advice with the ladies. If you don't mind, I have a quick question, you mention your book in several posts, yet I could not find it online. Did you write a book on dating or offering other advice that is available to the public? Adam, I am a big fan of your writing and advice. It all makes sense. I am an officer in the military (Coast Guard) enrolled in Naval Flight School at present. One of my big problems was having confidence in taking the plane out on my own. The plane we fly costs millions of dollars, and if you screw someting up, it not only costs big money and your career, but also your life. I liked your advice on faking confidence. I had some very bad landings and lost all my confidence in my abilities right before one of my biggest flights, which was a test to certify me to fly solo. Without out confidence, I failed miserably, and was almost thrown out of flight school. I had one more chance to preform on a follow up flight with a high ranking (and scary) marine corps officer. If I failed, my career would be over. I decided to go out with this pilot and pretend I was the most confident pilot in the world. I met him, he asked me what I was having problems with, I told him my last few flights were just bad days, I am a great pilot and then we went and flew. It worked, I had a great flight (eventhought it was uncomfortable as all hell). After that day, I started flying better and better, and I am now back at the top of my class. I like your advice, it pertains to many situations in life. Fake confidence really dose build into real confidence. Now its just time to start taking this advice with the ladies. If you don’t mind, I have a quick question, you mention your book in several posts, yet I could not find it online. Did you write a book on dating or offering other advice that is available to the public?

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